My kids are better than your kids!?
My husband thinks my kids are bad. They are normal 8 and 9 year olds. Not horribly bad, not angelicly good. I know they aren’t angels. I think his children are bad in ways that my kids aren’t. Again, his kids are not angels and not horribly bad. Both of his are disrespectful to adults. My kids are loud and fight with each other. My prob is that hubby has compared his kids to mine. His are angels, mine are miserable. This makes me angry and kinda makes me resent his kids. I try not to. but, it’s hard. He spanks my kids, but never his own even when they do things that are worse than what mine do. He takes my child support $ and uses it for bills. He takes the child support for his daughter and puts it in a savings account for her. His family owns the house we live in. So, they would say that is why her child support goes into savings while mine is used. I’m sick of the double standards and it is causing bad feelings. I love him dearly though. What can I do?
How about putting your children and yourself first
time to move on
I have remarried with 3 children (boys)
before the marriage I have told him that you need to understand that my children come first & no one is allow to hurt them
if they do something you and I will deal with it together
where money is concern we are responsible for all 4 children (he has one from a previous relationship)
Don’t let anyone used you children nor their money
if he does not respect your children that mean he does not respect you ,if you stay in this relationship as it is as the moment you will lost your children, and the worst thing that a mother can have is regret for the way she cause pain to her children
Move on, your love for this selfish man can not be stronger than your love for your children nor can this man love more they do
Take your kids and start your life
I’ll bet you within 2 wks after you left he will see his children for what they are
Be strong have courage, Pray
be good to your children, be patient and some day you will have the Angels that you deserve
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